What this is
A pizza-night format for teenagers and college students who have working sarcasm detectors. It moves fast, it doesn't ask anyone to share feelings in a circle, and the sincere part arrives late and briefly - which is the only way it lands with this room.
A Reading from Trinity Trail
A short passage chosen by the author to close this part of the gathering — a parable, a moment from the trail, or the line that says it better than a question could.
What you need
- Pizza. Order more than you think
- A screen big enough for the back row
- One very large book - a dictionary, a textbook, anything over a thousand pages
- Printed recap cards from below, or just the questions on a phone
- A whiteboard or a big piece of paper for the odds math
A Reading from Trinity Trail
A short passage chosen by the author to close this part of the gathering — a parable, a moment from the trail, or the line that says it better than a question could.
How the night runs
A Reading from Trinity Trail
A short passage chosen by the author to close this part of the gathering — a parable, a moment from the trail, or the line that says it better than a question could.
Speed-round cards
A Reading from Trinity Trail
A short passage chosen by the author to close this part of the gathering — a parable, a moment from the trail, or the line that says it better than a question could.
Running it well
The failure mode is going sincere too early. If minute five turns into a feelings circle, the room closes and doesn't reopen. Keep it fast and funny until the game is over, and the one honest question at the end will do more work than thirty minutes of earnest setup would have.
The other failure mode is arguing with the skeptic. Don't. The book's own main character is the skeptic, and he stays one for most of it. A student who pushes back hard is engaged, not lost.
A Reading from Trinity Trail
A short passage chosen by the author to close this part of the gathering — a parable, a moment from the trail, or the line that says it better than a question could.
The Author's Closing Word
Every gathering ends the same way: the host stops talking and reads something the author chose. Scripture, a teaching, or a passage from the trail — Jeff Stone selects it, and it is the last thing anyone hears before they go home.
Scripture & teaching — the author's selection
Chosen by Jeffrey Stone. Read it once, slowly. Do not explain it afterward.
Talk it through
Four exchanges, not four lectures. Ask, listen, let somebody else answer before you say anything. If the room goes quiet, count to three — somebody always fills it, and it is usually the person who needed to.
Nobody has to answer all four. One good answer from one person is a successful round.
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